Families who have a teenage pregnancy never plan them. Teenagers often have unprotected sex that leads to becoming pregnant without regard for what is involved with having a baby and raising them to the age of 18. Many young girls use the excuse that they want a baby so they will always have someone to love them and really it is due to the fact that they want to have sex and can‘t get the birth control they need. This is related to the fact that the young girl’s mind hasn’t fully developed yet and she is not capable of making adult decisions. Once their mind fully develops once they are about 21, they will understand why it was such a bad idea to want a baby at such a young age. By this age, many women will have a child who is 5, 6, or even 7 years old as a result of a teenage pregnancy.
Many times teens will not get the care they need from the beginning because they will hide the fact that they are pregnant from school administrators and their parents. Prenatal care is often started in the last trimester of a teenage pregnancy.
Pregnant teens need prenatal vitamins so they can be as healthy as possible while they have a life inside of them. Teenage pregnancy happens as the teen is still growing, so they need to make sure they eat right for their own growth as well as for the developing baby. The earlier a teen starts their prenatal care, the better for both baby and mom.
A teenage pregnancy is stressful on the teen and the family. It’s not just the expectant mother’s family who is stressed, it’s also the family of the father. Keeping stress levels at a minimum is important for a young mother to be. Too much stress can lead to all sorts of medical issues that can affect them negatively while they are pregnant. If the family of the father is not supportive of the teen’s decision to have the baby, try to keep her out of the path of the people who have negative thoughts about it. This will keep her from thinking about it as much and will be better in the long run. The father and his family will soon settle into the idea and not be as judgmental about the situation once they see it won’t do them any good.
Teenagers are going to experiment sexually, there is no doubt about that. Sexually transmitted diseases and the risk of a teenage pregnancy should be discussed regularly in the family so that teens know their risks involved with sex. It’s also a good idea to let your teen know that you have been a teenager once as well and you can relate to what kind of desires their body is having. Opening the pathway for discussion can also help you to talk about birth control methods that will keep them from getting pregnant.





December 15th, 2010 at 4:21 pm
My husband and I were teenage parents. Right now I'm 27yrs old and 26wks pregnant with our 2nd boy. With our 1st son I was at 17yrs old and had him a month after my 18th b-day. My husband was 16yrs old when my son was born. His mother was totally against it, she said "I'll pay 1/2 for the abortion and that's all I will do". My husband never said much, he just went with the flow, I guess. He never but his mom straight tho. Thank-god I was blessed with great parents and family that was very very supportive. I at 17yrs old was so immature to think I was the jock and popular girl, there's no way I'm gonna be a teenage mom. I wasn't using protection, I wasn't thinking about being careful. I was thinking how much fun I was having, being active with my husband (BF at the time). We have been through soo much crap and drama for the 1st 4yrs of my son's life. We we're not ready at all to have a child at our tender ages. His mother didn't come around until he was 3yrs old. She always brought up the fact we we're too young and not ready. She even told him to leave me. So please, there is options and help out there if you don't have support. We are one of the lucky ones to stay together. There is a big percentage that it won't turn out this way my life has turned out. I had my son thinking I was gonna do it all by myself. So when we decided to try for another we we're happy but really scared. I was ready for his mom to say something negative to me, but she was happy for us. So this time I was scared because I thought, why is it so calm this time around, is it to good to be true. I just can't wait to meet our new son..